We’ve all had it happen… and it plain sucks…
A girl hotter than the super model Gisele traps you dead in your tracks.
Her body, an affectionate nod to Playboy magazine perfection.
Dirty thoughts may race through your mind.
Now for the part that’s grosser than sticking your nose in grandma’s underwear…
You snap back to reality. A bombshell is smack-dab in front of you.
Your tongue is tied into a knot. In this moment, you feel like you’ve got the conversation skills of Forrest Gump.
You think, “If only I had the perfect line on the tip of my tongue, I could have this girl eating out of the palm of my hand.”
Perhaps.
But think about this…
If you gave a group of guys the same pick up line, the results would be fascinating. Some will experience horrifying rejection. Others will use it and be making sweet monkey love with a woman in no time.
One more thing to consider…
Have you ever watched natural ladies men approach women? You may have noticed that many didn’t use a pick up line.
When they do use one, it’s so bad most men would think it would never work.
Here’s my point…
There’s nothing wrong with using a pickup line.
What you say isn’t responsible for sparking a sexual interaction between you and a woman.
What’s the trick?
Get a face transplant, buddy?
Kidding.
Here’s my advice…
When out on the town, observe the men getting all the female attention.
Ignore “what” they say. It’s useless.
Instead, notice how they talk to and act around gorgeous girls.
Years ago, I did this and discovered certain patterns of behavior all ladies men exhibit when meeting and attracting women.
I don’t have time in this article to share all of them.
But to get you started, here are two…
1) Get out of your head:
Ladies men don’t have the the negative thoughts or internal dialogue most men have inside their head. They expend their mental energy observing women they’d like to meet and attract.
Here’s an exercise that will pull you outside your head and into the real world…
Go to a bar and instead of talking to women, spend a night observing all the funny things in your environment. This will move your focus of attention away from the negative thoughts in your head and onto your environment where it belongs.
2) When they see a shining example of genetic perfection, they go up to her immediately:
When most men see an attractive woman, their mind floods with a stampede of worries, such as: “Am I too short or too tall for her?” Will she embarrass me in front of everyone?” “Does she have a boyfriend?” and so on The longer they wait, the more cancerous thoughts burrow their way into their noggin, making even more difficult to approach. Don’t fall victim to this.
The time between your eyeballs catching sight of a girl you’d like to meet and you approaching her should be no longer than three seconds.
Josh Lubens, a world renowned dating coach, writes under the penname Swinggcat and has taught men how to pick up women for over a decade. On his website, you can get free pick up lines that actually work.
